John Merriam b. June 26 1752 first married Hulda  Royce ( Hough). She had been married before to Phinas Hough Jr. When she died in July 6 1786 she left her estate from  her first marriage to "her children" by her first husband.
John Merriam erected the following stone in Meriden, Connecticut cemetery.
   John Merriam Consort to
       the relict of the late
   Mr. Phineas Hough junior
    hath created this monument
           to his memory
   He died in service of his
   country Aug. 1 AD 1776
   In the 31st year of his age
         and buried in the
   Presbyterian Church Yard
            at New York

  Who can grieve too much, what time shall end
   Our morning for so dear a friend.

     American
    Revolution
       
1776




Was john Merriam a revolutionary Soldier?

Was John a loyalist? According to our family story passed down we were loyalists. In researching our family I have yet to find that this is correct. In the "Merriam genealogy in England & America" book by Charles Pope it states that a "John Merriam" from Connecticut fought in the American revolution. John was a sergeant and was in the same roll with Jesse, Titus, William and Joseph Merriam from Connecticut.
John would have been 24 in 1776. I can find only one John Merriam of that age living in Connecticut at the time, the above man.

In a letter I received from Larry Millar the DAR genealogist he says "There are several John's Merriam's who served in the War.  Mainly either Massachusetts or New Hampshire service.  I too found a reference to a John who was a Sergeant in Capt. Daniel Collins' Company from CT.  (Col. Thaddeus Cook's Regiment)  Later (1780),  Capt. Collins is found in the 7th Regiment of Militia under
Col. William Worthington.  I was hoping that I could determine that this John (the SGT) was from Wallingford, but I can't without some more work.  However, I did find a John MERRIAM from Wallingford who marched "for relief of Boston in the Lexington Alarm," April 1775.  (Cf. The Record of CT Men of the Military & Naval Service During the War of the Revolution, 1775-1783, Johnston, p. 24)  This probably was your John as he would have been 23 that year."
So the mystery continues.

...Kit Cutting


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